Sex with a sex doll can be an amazing experience, both physically and emotionally.
However, it is important to ensure you have a quality sex doll, follow the correct instructions and always use variation to keep things exciting.
What does it feel like to kiss and touch a sex doll?
Kissing a sex doll can be a very realistic experience. The face and lips are soft, and the mouth can be opened, allowing you to insert your tongue or genitals and feel the texture. Some dolls even feature tongues and teeth, and have a deeper throat for added sensations during use.
Modern TPE and silicone sex dolls feel incredibly realistic. They have a soft, lifelike skin texture. Their faces and body parts are modeled after real women and can be customized to your preferences. Whether you want larger breasts or a fuller butt, anything is possible.
A sex doll's breasts are round and malleable, with firm nipples. Some dolls also have larger buttocks for added pleasure.
What did a sex doll owner think?
We came across the following comment on the social media platform Reddit, where the owner was asked to share his first experience. The text has been translated from English:
“I still remember it so well, the day she arrived.
I got a text that the delivery person was on her way, and four hours later she was at my door. Those were the most exciting four hours of my life: my heart was racing, I nearly had diarrhea from the tension, my mouth was dry, my palms were sweaty…
The first thing I did when I opened the box was just stare at her. For like five hours. She looked so realistic that I felt like the moment I touched her, she'd kick me in the balls and run off with my car keys, haha. xD
I only felt a little regret for the first few days after placing the order. But then I did the math and realized how much I was spending on prostitutes (€1,500 per month), so I started to see it as a medium-term investment.
The packaging is quite discreet. Post office employees have so many packages that they really don't stop to think about what's in a particular box. And even if they somehow did know (this certainly isn't the first one they've seen), they think, "Oh, okay," and carry on with their work.
And if they do try to talk about what's in it or why it's so heavy, you can just say it's IKEA furniture or fitness equipment or something else that makes sense.
The feel depends on the material. TPE dolls are stiffer and somewhat oilier than silicone dolls. They all have a distinct odor that dissipates a few hours after unpacking.
To me it feels about 80% realistic, except for the lack of body heat and the post-sex chat.
The vagina feels gummy and soft, hard to describe, but it feels good. The only thing missing compared to a real woman is moisture and warmth.
The breasts feel pretty much the same.
PRO TIP: If you want to make lovemaking feel a little more realistic, buy a perfume you like and lightly mist her hair or the bed with it. Don't spray it on her body.
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On Reddit, experiences vary. Some people think it's fantastic, while others aren't entirely convinced. See what others on Reddit think .
How do you make the experience as realistic as possible?
To make the experience as realistic as possible, you need to make optimal use of all your senses:
- Your eyes: Dress your sex doll the way you find beautiful and sexy, and leave some room for the imagination with lingerie or a bikini. Never buy a sex doll you don't find attractive.
- Your ears: Play an erotic video or listen to your favorite actor or actress through headphones.
- Your nose: the scent of women's perfume works wonders, as described above.
- Touch: Preheat the sex doll, for example in the laundry room near the dryer, with a heated blanket (no warmer than 37°C) or with a vaginal warmer.
Vaginal sex
This is one of the most common ways people enjoy their sex doll. Every female sex doll we sell comes with a fully functional vagina. Many dolls offer a choice between a removable vagina , similar to a pocket pussy , or a fixed vagina. The depth of each doll's vaginal opening is usually around 10-15 cm; choose a doll that's suitable for your penis length.
All our dolls are made of silicone or TPE, both materials feeling incredibly realistic. The vaginas are designed for intense stimulation and are shaped to feel just like having sex with a real person. Using them is as you'd expect: you place the doll in the desired position, insert your penis, and continue as you normally would. The combination of friction and pressure feels absolutely amazing, according to our customers.
We're often asked if it's possible to climax inside a sex doll. The answer is yes. This is a common practice, and the dolls are specifically designed for this purpose. For a faster cleanup, we always recommend using a condom.
Anal sex with a sex doll
Many people fantasize about anal sex. The good news is that sex dolls can offer this experience too. The doll's anal opening feels realistic, opens easily, and feels tight. Anal sex with a sex doll can be very pleasurable for many.
It can sometimes be difficult to find a partner who's open to anal sex, let alone someone who enjoys it themselves. With a sex doll, however, you don't have to worry about that. Both male and female dolls offer functional options in this area. Our engineers have designed the dolls to offer an immersive experience, exactly the way you want it.
Oral sex with a sex doll
Depending on the type of TPE sex doll you have and what you're looking for, oral sex can be satisfying. Some dolls are designed for deep oral sex, and with a little heat and lubricant, they can feel just like a real mouth.
Is a blowjob from a sex doll the same as a blowjob from a real person? Not so. A sex doll can't simulate the same suction as a real person and is primarily focused on vaginal and anal sex. Both have their advantages and disadvantages.
Nevertheless, oral sex with a sex doll can be very enjoyable. Of course, lubricant is necessary, but you never have to worry about the doll's gag reflex, or whether the neck will stiffen, or how the doll will react when you climax.
The right lubricant for a sex doll
To prevent skin damage and to optimally enjoy vaginal, anal or oral penetration with your penis, it is important to lubricate the sex doll's mouth well with lubricant.
Most people choose to use lubricant to make the experience more pleasant and easier.
Always choose a water-based lubricant . Silicone or oil-based lubricants can damage your sex doll and cause stains. Water-based lubricant is highly recommended because it's more hygienic, easy to clean, and doesn't slide everywhere, unlike silicone lubricants.
Apply about 5 ml of lubricant to each area where you intend to penetrate. Too much lubricant can make the experience sticky and messy.
Tip: Need more lubricant after a while? Add a little warm water to reactivate it; that's often all it takes to continue.
Experimenting with sex dolls
You can experiment with various positions and sexual acts. You can also customize your sex doll's outfits, wig , and sometimes even its proportions. By changing these elements, every experience stays fresh and exciting.
While the reasons for buying a sex doll vary, most customers choose these dolls for their realistic appearance and sexual companionship. They're designed with physical sex in mind. To ensure a great experience and a long-lasting sex doll, it's important to follow some cleaning instructions . This way, you can fully enjoy your sex doll and get years of enjoyment from it.
For the ultimate sexual experience, keep in mind that you may need to invest some money. High-quality, lifelike sex dolls aren't cheap. In fact, they can be quite pricey, often exceeding €1,000. It's important to realize that this is a long-term investment that you'll enjoy for years to come. There are also sex dolls under €1,000; these are usually torso sex dolls .
Top-quality sex dolls are so realistic that it's sometimes difficult to distinguish between sex with a doll and sex with a human. It's an experience to cherish and one that can be deeply satisfying.
Benefits of sex with a sex doll
First of all, it's much easier to experiment with a sex doll. Your real partner might not be open to certain ideas, like anal sex or different positions. With a sex doll, you won't have any problems with that. A sex doll never says no and won't object to anything you decide to do.
If you're in a relationship, a sex doll can also offer benefits. Adding a sex doll to your erotic life can be a refreshing and exciting experience. It can even serve as practice before attempting a threesome. Either way, it's a win-win.
What does it feel like to have sex with a sex doll? It feels very realistic and is definitely worth trying.
How realistic can our sex dolls be?
Watch the production video for Lily, a silicone doll with an Asian appearance, below. Note the details; they speak for themselves.
Source:
- Reddit comment post from a customer sharing their experience of buying their first sex doll (not Monica Moments), retrieved 10/12/2025 from https://www.reddit.com/r/SexDolls/comments/1phuha6/what_does_it_feel_like_to_own_and_have_sex_with_a/?share_id=R9-FC4uWWu3wp6vQjb_kS&
