Sex with a sex doll can be a wonderful experience, both physically and emotionally.
However, it is important to make sure you have a high-quality sex doll, follow the correct instructions, and keep varying things to make it exciting.
What does it feel like to kiss and touch a sex doll?
Kissing a sex doll can be a highly realistic experience. The face and lips are soft, and the mouth can be opened, allowing you to insert your tongue or penis and feel the texture. Some dolls are even equipped with a tongue and teeth and have a deeper throat for extra sensations during use.
Modern TPE and silicone sex dolls feel highly realistic. They have soft, lifelike skin texture. The face and body parts are modeled after real women and can be customized according to your preferences. Whether you want larger breasts or a fuller butt, anything is possible. A real size sex doll can even have both.
The breasts of a sex doll are round and pliable, with firm nipples. Some dolls also have larger buttocks for extra pleasure.
What did a sex doll owner think?
We came across the response below on the social media platform Reddit, where the owner was asked to share his first experience. The text has been translated from English:
''I remember it so well, the day she arrived.
I received a text message saying the delivery driver was on the way, and four hours later she was standing at the door. Those were the most exciting four hours of my life: my heart was racing, I almost got diarrhea from the tension, dry mouth, sweaty palms…
The first thing I did when I opened the box was simply stare at her. For at least five hours. She looked so realistic that I felt like, as soon as I touched her, she would kick me in the balls and run off with my car keys haha. xD
I only regretted it briefly during the first few days after placing the order. But then I did the math and realized how much I was spending on prostitutes (1,500 per month), so I started seeing it as a medium-term investment.
The packaging is quite discreet. Postal workers handle so many packages that they really don't stop to think about what's inside any particular box. And even if they somehow did know (this certainly isn't the first one they've seen), they would think, “oh, okay,” and get on with their work.
And if they do try to make small talk about what's inside or why it's so heavy, you can simply say that it's IKEA furniture or fitness equipment, or something else that sounds plausible.
How it feels depends on the material. TPE dolls are firmer and somewhat oilier than silicone dolls. They all have a certain odor that disappears a few hours after unpacking.
In my view, it feels about 80% realistic, except for the lack of body heat and the post-sex conversation.
The vagina feels gummy and soft, difficult to describe, but it feels good. The only things missing compared with a real woman are moisture and warmth.
The breasts feel almost exactly the same.
PRO TIP: If you want sex to feel a little more realistic, buy a perfume you like and lightly spray it on her hair or the bed. Not on the body.''
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Experiences on Reddit vary. One person thinks it's fantastic, while another isn't really convinced. See what others on Reddit think.
Another user said on Reddit:
''The short answer is that it's the best form of masturbation there is, but it's still masturbation. It never really feels like having sex with a real partner, but many of the same rhythms, sensations, and movements are involved, assuming you're usually the more active partner.
It also requires quite a bit of maintenance. You have to use a lot of lubricant, which can get rather messy. After use, you need to be fairly meticulous about cleaning and airing it out/drying it. The dolls are often susceptible to various minor cosmetic issues that can occur quickly and unexpectedly - for example, if you leave a dark garment on the doll for even a few hours, it can stain the skin.
You don't really need to preheat it; there are USB heating sticks and heated blankets, but the doll will eventually warm up on its own through use.
Some people definitely assign a personality to the doll and develop an emotional bond or attachment to it, while others see them purely as toys/tools, like expensive fleshlights.
Although it does not feel like having sex with a human partner, it can come quite close, and it is still a great workout and can be a fun, safe way to experiment with positions and practice techniques.
As for me, my partner can rarely have sex due to a medical condition. A doll has been very useful for me to release some of my pent-up energy and, so to speak, stay in shape, without involving a third party, which we currently prefer not to do.
I am no expert, but I am happy to answer any specific questions if you wish. I must say that the sex doll industry is still finding its way, and that there are quite a few peculiarities and strange things about these dolls; they often really feel as though they are still in the “beta phase.” But they get better every year, and with the rise of robotics, I am curious to see what the coming decade will bring.''
*Translated from English.
How do you make the experience as realistic as possible?
Make the experience as realistic as possible by making optimal use of all your senses:
- Your eyes: dress your sex doll as you find beautiful and sexy, and leave something to the imagination with lingerie or a bikini. Never buy a sex doll you do not find attractive.
- Your ears: play an erotic video or listen through headphones to your favorite actor or actress.
- Your nose: the scent of women's perfume works wonders, as described above.
- Touch: warm the sex doll beforehand, for example in the laundry room near the dryer, with a heated blanket (no warmer than 37 °C), or with a vaginal warmer.
Vaginal sex
This is one of the most common ways people enjoy their sex doll. Every female sex doll we sell comes with a fully functional vagina. With many dolls, you can choose between a removable vagina, similar to a pocketpussy, or a fixed vagina. The depth of each doll's vaginal opening is usually around 10-15 cm, so choose a doll suitable for your penis length.
All our dolls are made of silicone or TPE, and both materials feel very realistic. The vaginas are designed for intense stimulation and shaped to feel as though you are having sex with a real person. Use is as you would expect: you position the doll as desired, insert your penis into the doll, and continue as you normally would. According to our customers, the combination of friction and pressure feels absolutely fantastic.
We are often asked whether it is possible to climax inside the sex doll. The answer is yes. This is common practice, and the dolls are specially designed for this purpose. If you want faster cleanup, we always recommend using a condom.
Anal sex with a sex doll
Many people fantasize about anal sex. The good news is that sex dolls can provide this experience too. The doll's anal opening feels realistic, opens easily, and provides a tight sensation. Anal sex with a sex doll can be very pleasurable for many people.
It can sometimes be difficult to find a partner who is open to anal sex, let alone someone who also enjoys it. With a sex doll, however, you do not have to worry about that. Both male and female dolls have functional capabilities in this area. Our engineers designed the dolls to provide an impressive experience, exactly as you want to experience it.
Oral sex with a sex doll
Depending on the type of TPE sex doll you have and what you are looking for, oral sex can be satisfying. Some dolls are designed for deep throating, and with some warmth and lubricant, they can feel like a real mouth.
Is a blowjob from a sex doll the same as a blowjob from a person? It is not. A sex doll cannot simulate the same suction as a real person and is primarily designed for vaginal and anal sex. Both have their advantages and disadvantages.
Nevertheless, oral sex with a sex doll can be very pleasurable. Lubricant is naturally necessary, but you never have to worry about the doll's gag reflex, its neck becoming stiffer, or how the doll will react when you climax.
The right lubricant for a sex doll
To prevent skin injuries and fully enjoy vaginal, anal, or oral penetration with your penis, it is important to thoroughly lubricate the sex doll's mouth.
Most people choose to use lubricant to make the experience more pleasant and comfortable.
Always choose water-based lubricant. Silicone- or oil-based lubricants can damage your sex doll and cause stains. Water-based lubricant is highly recommended because it is more hygienic, easy to clean, and does not slide everywhere, unlike silicone lubricants.
Apply approximately 5 ml of lubricant to each area you want to penetrate. Too much lubricant can make the experience sticky and messy.
Tip: Do you need more lubricant after a while? Add a small amount of warm water to reactivate it; often, that is all you need to continue.
Experimenting with sex dolls
You can experiment with various positions and sexual activities. In addition, you can adjust your sex doll's outfits, wig, and sometimes even body proportions. By changing these elements, every experience stays fresh and exciting.
Although the reasons for buying a sex doll may vary, most customers choose these dolls because of their realistic appearance and sexual companionship. They are designed with physical sex in mind. To ensure that you have a great experience and that your sex doll lasts a long time, it is important to follow some cleaning instructions. This way, you can fully enjoy your sex doll and have years of pleasure with it.
For the ultimate sexual experience, keep in mind that you may need to invest some money. High-quality, lifelike sex dolls are not cheap. In fact, they can be quite expensive, with prices often exceeding €1000. It is important to realize that this is a long-term investment that you will enjoy for a long time. There are also sex dolls under €1000; these are generally torso sex dolls.
Top-quality sex dolls are so realistic that the difference between sex with a doll and sex with a human can sometimes be difficult to distinguish. It is an experience to cherish and one that can bring great satisfaction.
Benefits of sex with a sex doll
First of all, it is much easier to experiment with a sex doll. Your real partner may not be open to certain ideas, such as anal sex or different positions. With a sex doll, you won't encounter those problems. A sex doll never says no and does not object to whatever you decide to do.
If you are in a relationship, a sex doll can also offer benefits. Adding a sex doll to your erotic life can be a fresh and exciting experience. It can even serve as practice before trying a threesome. Either way, it's a win-win situation.
What does it feel like to have sex with a sex doll? It feels very realistic and is definitely worth trying.
''How realistic can our sex dolls be?''
Watch Lily's production video below, a silicone doll with an Asian appearance. Pay attention to the details; they speak for themselves.
Source:
- Post with a comment on Reddit from a customer who shared his experience with his first sex doll purchase (not from Monica Moments), accessed on 10/12/2025 at https://www.reddit.com/r/SexDolls/comments/1phuha6/what_does_it_feel_like_to_own_and_have_sex_with_a/?share_id=R9-FC4uWWu3wp6vQjb_kS&
