Should I buy a sex doll?

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Whether you should buy a sex doll depends on your desires and goals.

 

Sex dolls are used for sex as a physical goal, or for emotional support: as companionship, a cuddle buddy, or an alternative to a partner.

 

You shouldn’t buy a sex doll if you need mutual communication; in that case, it’s better to talk to a psychologist, friend, or actual partner.

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    What is the purpose of buying a sex doll?

    The purpose determines whether you should buy a sex doll and which type. 

    If you're looking for sex, companionship, and a presence in your home, or you're no longer interested in women, then a sex doll is a valid option.

    If you're looking for a replacement for a partner, a torso sex doll definitely isn't enough. When you want a partner, the physical aspect of cuddling is much more important, and you'll want to mimic reality as closely as possible. So in this case, it's best to choose a full-body sex doll.


     

    When should you buy a full body sex doll?

    You buy a full body sex doll if you want to use a sex doll not only for sex, but also for companionship or as a presence in your home, where you can cuddle the doll. A full-size sex doll can then be used in more ways and isn't just for sex.

     

    When should you buy a torso sex doll or masturbator? 

    You buy a torso sex doll or masturbator if the sole purpose is to satisfy your sexual desires. Torso sex dolls or masturbators are smaller, sturdier (less likely to break and have fewer delicate parts), cheaper, and more ergonomic. 

    Realistic torso sex doll in beige lingerie on a white background

     

    Should you buy a sex doll?

    Buy a full body sex doll if you're looking for a combination of companionship or a presence in your home, with the ability to cuddle and have sex.

    Buy a torso sex doll or masturbator if you only want sex.

     

    When shouldn't you buy a sex doll?

    If you're looking for mutual communication, don't buy a sex doll.

    If you're looking for someone you can communicate with mutually so you can discuss your feelings, it's better to contact a psychologist. Sex dolls don't talk back, so they aren't suitable conversation partners.

    Sex dolls can act as a listening ear or an audience, just like pets or a stuffed toy can. So if you don’t expect communication, a sex doll can still...

     

    Can you use a sex doll to lose your virginity?

    For sexual initiation, you need another person. Sex with a sex doll falls into the category of masturbation. A sex doll cannot take someone’s virginity.

    Sex with a sex doll can help you get used to the idea of having sex with someone else. The one major factor missing from sex with a sex doll is mutual communication and interaction.

    There are several reasons to choose a sex doll for your first time.

    • Orgasm control
      Sex with a sex doll is, in principle, not comparable to sex with a person. But if you’re nervous and want to practice, a sex doll can be training material for building your stamina and, among other things, delaying orgasm.

    • Gaining experience
      How a sexual encounter goes varies from person to person. You don’t gain experience by watching porn, because you aren’t participating. Sex is a dynamic experience and unique to each person. So you can gain experience with a sex doll, but it can’t be compared to the dynamics of real sex, because no two sexual encounters are the same, and communication and feedback are missing.

    • Sex is too exciting
      If you find sex too exciting, the best thing you can do is gain experience. Sex isn’t exciting anymore once you’ve had it 1,000 times.
      • Sex is never perfect. Accept that it will never be perfect and don’t worry about it. Above all, make sure your first sex partner is someone you trust. Sex is always exciting the first time, just like almost everything you do for the first time.

    We can say that any form of preparation or gaining experience, with a sex doll or otherwise, is better than having no experience before having sex with a real person. 

    Sex dolls are always an addition to your sex life, but can almost never fully replace a partner because of the missing communication factor.

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