Why do men see sex dolls as a worthy alternative to women?
Buying sex dolls is done by different kinds of people. Sex dolls are mainly purchased for two different reasons: the physical purpose of sex, or the mental purpose of companionship, presence, and having someone to care for.
This covers the vast majority of sex doll users; everyone has their reasons, and they are not the same or obvious to everyone.
In short, sex dolls offer a transparent exchange with clear boundaries. In return for some care, imagination, and a certain budget, you can enjoy companionship, honesty, peace, and total control over the form and frequency of sex, while always retaining 100% control yourself.
The main features of this description are peace, control, transparency, and total devotion. A sex doll has no purpose other than to satisfy you and, in return, requires only a few minutes of attention in the form of cleaning.
Please note: not everyone uses a sex doll as an alternative to a relationship or partner; some couples use sex dolls as an addition to their relationship for a little extra, or as an introduction to a threesome. We know that for many people, sex dolls cannot provide the connection that real partners can, but not everyone considers that a hard requirement. Many are aware of this and do not expect that level of communication either.
Quotes from sex doll owners
"It seems that the whole concept of dating and marriage has become a trap for men. No matter how you try to play it, she is always in control and will probably use or abuse that control at some point. Sex dolls are a sensible alternative that meets my needs well enough to have a satisfying relationship."
''For anyone who still can't figure it out, what would you rather do? Have sex with your hand or with an almost-real vagina. The choice is a no-brainer.''
Customer story sex doll experience 205
''A few years ago, like many others, I started with a small sex toy.
Out of curiosity and wanting to further improve my sexual stamina, I decided to try something bigger.
I'd been thinking about it for a while and couldn't find a reason not to, so I took the plunge.
After my first time with a larger doll, I already knew it was a keeper.
De visual shapes, the feel of touch, and the contact.
No small masturbator can compare.
Unwind, de-stress, simply enjoy myself, and also gain more control over my orgasms and train my stamina.
It's fun to experiment and discover new things. Some toys work out better than others, but there are few things I get as much pleasure from.
It's not really comparable to a small toy either, because you get a lot more to work with.
I see it as a hobby, one I take my time with and truly enjoy.
Everyone deserves to experience this at least once, even if it's just to try it. I always feel much happier after using one of my dolls.
It really is a fantastic experience, those little moments with Monica, haha!''
Customer story sex doll experience 344
''I'd been thinking about trying something new for a while, but because I want to make a well-considered choice about which toy to get, I often spend months researching.
I wanted something other than a small masturbator, something bigger and more realistic, so it would feel like a moment to enjoy rather than just quickly relieving stress with a toy that's too small.
Because with a small pocket pussy or masturbator, you end up doing all the work yourself in 90% of cases.
I didn't want that anymore.
Just something big and new, the real deal.
I'm really an ass man. I could look at beautifully shaped buttocks for hours.
So I went with Claudia.
The great thing about a larger doll is that you can use it without your hands, too.
It feels so realistic that it can't be compared to other small sex toys, like a masturbator or pocket pussy.
So far, I've been able to enjoy my purchase several times every week.
By the way, there's another benefit I only recently discovered
I can last much longer in bed now because I can train or practice my endurance and stamina with my doll.
A few weeks ago, I averaged just 4 minutes before orgasm. That has already doubled.
Thanks! - A happy customer''
Customer story sex doll experience 592
''I've been a customer of yours for some time now, but I thought I'd share my story:
For me, it wasn't even so much about the sex. I'm someone who really enjoys physical contact, so I mainly use Anne to cuddle up to while sleeping.
Her low weight makes it even more comfortable, although I do miss her legs sometimes.
Sometimes, in that moment, I forget how realistic it feels when she’s lying with her face on my chest.
Every now and then, she needs a quick dusting, but the wonderful intimacy and feeling make it more than worth it.
Being able to use her for intimate things is an added benefit you can choose.
Having complete control is also a big advantage: you can do exactly what you want.
Trying certain things, fulfilling fantasies. Her appearance, the setting, or a specific time of day.
All under your control.
A realistic doll brings me nothing but positive things, like comfort, companionship, presence, and of course, sex.
You also learn to use her better and more often for all sorts of things.
The only thing, and I really do mean the only thing, is that she can’t clean herself. But you get the hang of it over time.
But for me, it’s simple: I’d rather sleep with her than without her.”
Customer Story: sex doll Experience 702
“I think about five years ago (just before COVID), bedroom adventures with my wife started to feel monotonous. It was getting a bit boring.
We’d already tried a whole lot of new things, but many adventures were fun once, not over and over again.
Small toys felt too mechanical, and double dates felt awkward. You’ve spent years getting to know your own wife, so getting another couple involved just takes a while to get used to.
Meeting new people always feels awkward, and my wife and I weren’t keen on seeing the same people again because that could lead to developing additional feelings.
My wife and I love each other dearly, but we both quickly developed an aversion to new people.
You can only really enjoy sex when you’ve known each other for a while, know what the other person likes, and feel completely at ease.
We liked the idea of other people, but it was always an anticlimax once they were standing in the bedroom. You worry about what the other person thinks, both the person you’re meeting for the first time and your partner, who also has to get used to them.
Even if it was just a threesome.
A lot of hassle and organizing for a mediocre experience.
Simply not worth the trouble.
The mixed feelings completely took away from the enjoyable experience, too.
Ideally, I’d have an exact copy or “clone” of my wife, two of the same person in the bedroom.
I’d feel comfortable with it, and so would she.
Unfortunately, we’re not technologically advanced enough yet to make that possible.
But then I had the idea of introducing a lifelike doll. She didn’t need time to adjust, was up for anything, brought no risk of additional feelings, and both you and your partner can feel at ease.
My wife was open to it, and we started with a torso. Before long, we had a half doll, and we’ve now bought a full doll.
Every weekend brings a new experience, and the adventures are a success every time.
It’s always a celebration.
My wife and I look forward to every Friday so we can get back to it in our own bedroom, with our own models ready to join us.
I’d like to thank your company for the new life we’ve created in the bedroom.
It hasn’t just saved our sex life; it’s also given it a huge boost.
Kudos!”
Customer story sex doll experience 753
“Here’s my story, or rather, my experience:
Let’s be honest, every healthy person visits adult websites with 18+ content, but it gets monotonous having to do the same thing every time.
Small sex toys combined with videos are fun, but you’re still doing all the work yourself, and the activity is practically the same.
I’ve watched my share of porn; it doesn’t really do it for me anymore.
I’m no longer interested in dating either, because the women were often average, and I was only doing it for sex.
I’d wanted a better and safer alternative for a long time.
Dolls opened up a whole new world for me. They’re really different and make sexual interaction much more enjoyable because you don’t have to look at a screen or pleasure yourself, since she does that for you.
(I’ve also noticed my stamina improving dramatically, which I think is due to their realistic appearance, so it takes much longer to reach orgasm than before.)
With dolls, you use your hips, eyes, hands, arms, legs, and ears. The experience itself is what makes the moment enjoyable.
Something that 18+ videos on a screen can never replicate.
You have complete freedom in that sense, so go ahead and do whatever you want.
In that respect, high-quality dolls are very realistic and make the experience even better.
Or, well...
I don’t think an unattractive doll would be any good at all.
Visually unattractive dolls don’t make for an enjoyable experience, whereas high-quality dolls with a beautiful appearance do.”
Customer story sex doll experience 798
“I’d like to share my opinion or story, as perhaps others may appreciate my perspective.
I’ve been single for a few years and came across you on Google about a year ago.
Despite my hobbies, close friends, and daily activities, I hadn’t felt as well as I’d hoped in a long time.
Out of curiosity, I visited the website and recently bought one of your dolls.
It’s not that a sex doll replaces genuine love, but she gives me something I haven’t had in years.
Peace, deep, carefree sleep, physical comfort, and no more tension or anxiety about other people’s feelings.
A completely relaxed feeling.
Just feeling good and enjoying her presence.
I choose self-care, simplicity, and peace, with no chaos or hassle in the long term.
That way, I decide for myself what happens.
Someone who’s really there for me, without playing games or being absent.
It’s simply a better alternative for me in every way right now.
Not all sex toys or dolls are the same, because once you’ve found the right one, you experience exactly that peace and control, and then you’ll understand what I mean.
That’s really impossible to describe in words.
Perhaps I’ll want something else later, but right now this is the perfect option.''
Customer story sex doll experience 867
''Everyone has tried to tell me often enough: ''Being alone is nice and peaceful''
It’s fine if they think that, but it’s not my opinion.
I see it differently. I do want to have contact with someone; being alone isn’t empowering in my view, it’s just boring.
Of course, it’s nice to talk to someone else on a dating site, and visiting porn sites often does what it’s supposed to.
I just miss physical contact, even if it’s just having something or someone at home.
You can compare it to being hungry: you’re not very pleasant to be around because you’re missing something you physically need. Then, once you’ve had a good meal, you’re satisfied again right away.
That’s how I see having a doll or another companion at home, too.
I also like having a little something extra at home, and it gives me something to look forward to.
Sometimes it’s also nice to have your own little secret at home; it makes it even more enjoyable, I think..''
Customer story sex doll experience 898
''I genuinely feel happier and calmer after spending a little time with my doll.
Even when I was so stressed at work and not much was going exactly the way I wanted, I could come home, unwind, and relax in my own space with a companion like Annabel.
Don’t get me wrong: I’m in a long-distance relationship. I use a doll as an addition, not as a replacement.
But since I got a doll, I’ve generally been much happier. She never gets boring, and it’s just always fun.
So thank you very much for that.''
