Many people look for an alternative to lubricant, such as coconut oil or aloe vera gel. Maybe you want something more natural, or you don’t have standard lubricant at home. Luckily, there are safe and simple alternatives that you can often find in your kitchen or bathroom.
Oil-based lubricant
The natural lubricant alternatives listed below are oil-based and therefore not safe to use with almost all sex toys. Always choose a water-based lubricant when using these with sex toys.
- Material damage
- Silicone sex toys are damaged by oil: their surface becomes sticky, soft, or crumbly.
- Some sex toys can weaken or crack
- Difficult to clean
- Oil is not water-soluble, so it stays behind in the pores and cracks of the toy. This can lead to a buildup of bacteria or fungi, which can cause infections.
- Risk of infection
- Because oil can encourage the growth of certain bacteria and fungi, using it poses a greater health risk.
- Condom compatibility issues
- Oil can damage latex condoms, causing them to tear more easily and reducing protection against STIs and pregnancy.
Olive oil
Olive oil is a commonly used alternative to lubricant. It feels soft and doesn’t dry out quickly. Keep in mind: olive oil can damage condoms. So only use it without latex.
Coconut oil
Coconut oil is popular for its smooth texture and light scent. It nourishes the skin and lasts a long time. Like olive oil, it is not suitable for use with latex condoms, but it’s ideal for massages and intimate use.
Massage oil
Massage oil makes the skin supple and provides extra relaxation. It glides well, but always test first to make sure your skin doesn’t react to the ingredients. The same applies here: do not use with latex condoms.
Water-based lubricant
Water-based lubricants are suitable for use with condoms or sex toys. However, the alternatives below are almost always more expensive than regular water-based lubricant. For the best results and the lowest cost, buy a bottle of water-based lubricant.
Aloe vera gel
Aloe vera gel is refreshing, moisturizing, and water-based. This makes it safe to use with condoms and sex toys. Always choose a pure version without fragrance or alcohol.
Aloe vera is a good alternative to lubricant because it has some unique properties that make it safe and comfortable to use during sex. That's why we also use aloe vera in our own lubricant:
- Water-based: it is mostly water, making it safe for all kinds of sex toys and condoms.
- Gentle and natural: the gel is mild on the skin and mucous membranes, which generally prevents irritation.
- Moisturizing: aloe vera helps keep the skin hydrated, providing extra comfort during use.
- Easy to clean: it is water-soluble, so it rinses off easily without leaving residue.
- Organic and often hypoallergenic: many aloe vera gels contain few or no irritants, making them suitable for sensitive skin.
Always check the ingredients list if you don't have organic or pure aloe vera, to avoid damaging your sex toys.
Conclusion
You can easily find an alternative to lubricant at home. Coconut oil and olive oil work well, but they are not latex-friendly. Aloe vera gel is the safest and most versatile alternative. Choose what suits your situation and skin.
Be extra careful when choosing an alternative to lubricant for use with sex toys, or they could damage the toys.
Sex toys almost never react well to oil-based lubricants such as coconut oil or olive oil. So always use water-based lubricant with sex toys. The cheapest option is still to use a dedicated bottle of lubricant, though we understand you may not always have one on hand.
