How the rapid development of sex dolls began
The pandemic was a wake-up call for the sex doll industry, with many sellers seeing a sharp rise in sales and interest in sex dolls. We also had to expand to meet growing demand, which is expected to increase even further in the future. (1)
More and more people have come to accept sex dolls because of the growing anonymous part of the internet where people talk openly about sex dolls, the lower quality of (online) dating, and women's natural selection by Mother Nature.
Growing social media platforms such as Reddit (2) give people the opportunity to anonymously ask for advice, share experiences, and express their passions. Not only about sex dolls, but also about dating in general.
The anonymous ability to share stories about and purchases of sex dolls made it much easier and more commonplace to talk about them. More and more people are willing to talk openly about sex dolls and their relationships online when a high degree of anonymity is available.
The low barrier to entry, combined with the vast online dating pool (which is becoming less and less appealing to many men), has led men to look to sex dolls not only for a new experience, but also as a (temporary) alternative to a partner.
Why sex dolls are becoming more appealing than real partners
The dating world isn’t what it used to be. A few years ago, you could approach someone at a bar and strike up a conversation. If you were likeable enough, you had a chance. These days, you have to make an incredibly strong impression, and the competition is tougher than ever. You have to be better than the rest.
Women have the ability to contact dozens, perhaps even hundreds, of other men directly through their mobile phones. Not so much on a romantic level, but they can connect for entertainment and distraction. As a man, you have to be at least as interesting as the most interesting person on that list, or you’ll lose her attention.
With online dating, as a man you no longer compete with just a few others from your village; dating apps mean you now compete with dozens of people from multiple cities.
Mother Nature always selects and takes the most suitable candidate, namely the best and most competent man.
Women have more men to choose from; the reverse is not true. Women are more selective when choosing a partner (3) due to instinct/Mother Nature, and have their pick of partners because of their value: female beauty.
Onlyfans is an example where this power dynamic is strongly expressed; female beauty (and attention) is valuable enough for men to pay for, even if they don't know the woman personally. Conversely, women are less willing to pay for photos and attention from men they don't personally know.
Men build their value through status, social skills, and careers; women are inherently valuable because of their beauty, which develops naturally. Women automatically receive unconditional love, just like pets and children.
However, choosing a sex doll is not a final decision; some customers now/temporarily choose a sex doll until they find the right partner.
Extreme sex doll growth since 2021 and the coronavirus pandemic
The period of transformation from 2020 to 2023 can be considered the best three years for the world of sex dolls, during which a true revolution took place. Not only did more people buy their first sex doll, but it also opened the door for creative individuals to earn some extra money online.
Sex doll influencers
Just like YouTube, where the number of content creators and viewers increased during the pandemic, sex doll influencers also began finding their way onto Instagram, Onlyfans, porn sites, and YouTube. With more people stuck at home, some decided to start their own 18+ channels to fill the time, while those who had lost their jobs did so to generate some extra income. Likewise, the pandemic saw a new market emerge: the market for sex doll influencers.
A 'special' calling Unlike everyday Instagram influencers, sex doll influencers are driven by greater ambitions and goals than just money and fame. Their mission is to reach more people and raise awareness about why they should embrace the sex doll revolution.
The evolution of sex doll influencers is a fascinating phenomenon. Unlike traditional influencers, they are driven by a deeper mission: to destigmatize and normalize sex dolls. While they can certainly also reap financial benefits, the main focus is on giving these artificial partners a personality.
There are several ways influencers can earn money, such as monetizing their Instagram accounts or participating in promotional activities with sex dolls. Some influencers take part in exhibitions and even represent clothing brands as ambassadors. So alongside education and raising awareness, there is also a financial incentive.
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Although some people still feel uneasy about the subject of sex dolls, we cannot deny how far we have come over the years. The gradual change in perception, the widespread acceptance accelerated by the pandemic, and the industry's overall growth are visible to everyone.
The phenomenon of sex doll influencers could not have blossomed at a better time, as we increasingly move into the virtual world of the Metaverse.
References:
- DataHorizzon. (2025, February 24). Sex Doll Market By Material Type, By Price Range, and By Distribution Channel, Global Market Size, Share, Growth, Trends, Statistics Analysis Report, By Region, and Segment Forecasts 2025 to 2033. DataHorizzon Research. Retrieved on 5/12/2025 from https://datahorizzonresearch.com/sex-doll-market-51055
- Tweakers. (2025). Reddit reaches 100 million daily users. Tweakers. Retrieved on 5/12/2025 from https://tweakers.net/nieuws/231822/reddit-bereikt-100-miljoen-dagelijkse-gebruikers
- Zhang, J., & Yasseri, T. (July 13, 2016). What Happens After You Both Swipe Right: A Statistical Description of Mobile Dating Communications. arXiv. Retrieved on 5/12/2025 from https://arxiv.org/abs/1607.03320
