Sex with a sex doll can be a great experience, both physically and emotionally.
However, it is important to make sure you have a high-quality sex doll, follow the right instructions, and always vary things to keep it exciting.
What does it feel like to kiss and touch a sex doll?
Kissing a sex doll can be a very realistic experience. The face and lips are soft, and the mouth can be opened so you can insert your tongue or genitals and feel the texture. Some dolls are even equipped with a tongue and teeth and have a deeper throat for extra sensations during use.
Modern TPE and silicone sex dolls feel very realistic. They have a soft, lifelike skin texture. The face and body parts are modeled after real women and can be customized to your preference. Whether you want bigger breasts or a fuller butt, everything is possible.
The breasts of a sex doll are round and pliable, with firm nipples. Some dolls also have larger buttocks for extra pleasure.
What did a sex doll owner think?
We came across the following response on the social media platform Reddit, where the owner was asked to share his first experience. The text has been translated from English:
''I remember it so well, the day she arrived.
I got a text that the delivery person was on the way, and four hours later she was at the door. Those were the most exciting four hours of my life: my heart was racing, I almost had diarrhea from the nerves, dry mouth, sweaty palms…
The first thing I did when I opened the box was just stare at her. For at least five hours. She looked so realistic that I felt like as soon as I touched her, she would kick me in the balls and run off with my car keys haha. xD
Only the first few days after placing the order did I have some regrets. But then I did the math and realized how much I was spending on prostitutes (€1,500 per month), so I started seeing it as a medium-term investment.
The packaging is quite discreet. Postal workers handle so many packages that they really don’t stop to think about what’s inside a particular box. And even if they somehow did know (this definitely isn’t the first one they’ve seen), they’d just think: “oh, okay,” and move on with their work.
And if they try to make small talk about what’s inside or why it’s so heavy, you can just say it’s IKEA furniture or fitness equipment, or something else that sounds plausible.
How it feels depends on the material. TPE dolls are stiffer and a bit oilier than silicone dolls. They all have a certain smell that disappears a few hours after unpacking.
In my eyes, it feels about 80% realistic, except for the lack of body heat and the after-sex chat.
The vagina feels gummy and soft, hard to describe, but it feels good. The only thing missing compared to a real woman is moisture and warmth.
The breasts feel almost the same.
PRO TIP: If you want the sex to feel a bit more realistic, buy a perfume you like and lightly spray her hair or the bed with it. Not on the body.”
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Experiences vary on Reddit. Some find it fantastic, while others aren’t really convinced. Check out what others think on Reddit.
Another user shared on Reddit:
“The short answer is that it’s the best form of masturbation there is, but it’s still masturbation. It never really feels like you’re having sex with a real partner, but many of the same rhythms, feelings, and movements are involved, assuming you’re usually the more active partner.
It also requires quite a bit of maintenance. You need to use a lot of lubricant, which can be quite messy. You have to be quite meticulous about cleaning and airing/drying after use. The dolls are often sensitive to various small cosmetic issues that can occur quickly and unexpectedly – for example, if you leave a dark piece of clothing on the doll for even a few hours, it can cause stains on the skin.
You don’t really need to preheat; there are USB heating sticks and heated blankets, but the doll eventually warms up on its own through use.
There are definitely people who attribute a personality to the doll and have an emotional bond or involvement with it, while others see them purely as toys/tools, like expensive fleshlights.
Although it doesn’t feel like having sex with a human partner, it can come quite close, and it’s still a great workout and can be a fun, safe way to experiment with positions and practice techniques.
As for myself: my partner can rarely have sex due to a medical condition. A doll has been very useful for me to release some of my pent-up energy and to stay in shape, so to speak, without involving a third party, which we currently prefer not to do.
I'm not an expert, but I’m happy to answer any specific questions if you want. I must say the sex doll industry is still finding its way, and there are quite a few quirks and strange things about these dolls; they often really feel like they are still in the "beta phase." But they get better every year, and with the rise of robotics, I’m curious what the next decade will bring us.''
*Translated from English.
How to make the experience as realistic as possible?
To make the experience as realistic as possible, use all your senses optimally:
- Your eyes: dress your sex doll as you find beautiful and sexy, leaving some to the imagination with lingerie or a bikini. Never buy a sex doll you do not find attractive.
- Your ears: play an erotic video or listen to your favorite actor or actress through headphones.
- Your nose: the scent of women's perfume works wonders, as described above.
- Touch/feel: warm the sex doll beforehand, for example in the laundry room near the dryer, with a heating blanket (not warmer than 37 °C), or with a vaginal warmer.
Vaginal sex
This is one of the most common ways people enjoy their sex doll. Every female sex doll we sell comes with a fully functional vagina. With many dolls, you can choose between a removable vagina, similar to a pocket pussy, or a fixed vagina. The depth of the vaginal opening of each doll is usually around 10-15 cm, so choose a doll suitable for your penis length.
All our dolls are made of silicone or TPE, both materials feel very realistic. The vaginas are designed for intense stimulation and are shaped to feel like you are having sex with a real person. The use is as you would expect: you place the doll in the desired position, insert your penis into the doll, and proceed as you normally would. The combination of friction and pressure feels absolutely amazing according to our customers.
We often get asked if it’s possible to climax inside the sex doll. The answer is yes. This is a common practice, and the dolls are specially designed for this purpose. For quicker cleanup, we always recommend using a condom.
Anal sex with a sex doll
Many people fantasize about anal sex. The good news is that sex dolls can offer this experience too. The doll’s anal opening feels realistic, opens easily, and provides a tight sensation. Anal sex with a sex doll can be very pleasurable for many.
It can sometimes be hard to find a partner open to anal sex, let alone someone who enjoys it. With a sex doll, you don’t have to worry about that. Both male and female dolls have functional options in this area. Our engineers have designed the dolls to provide an impressive experience, exactly how you want to experience it.
Oral sex with a sex doll
Depending on the type of TPE sex doll you have and what you’re looking for, oral sex can be satisfying. Some dolls are designed for deep throat, and with some warmth and lubricant, they can feel like a real mouth.
Is a blowjob from a sex doll the same as one from a person? It’s not. A sex doll can’t simulate the same suction as a real person and is mainly designed for vaginal and anal sex. Both have their pros and cons.
Nevertheless, oral sex with a sex doll can be very enjoyable. Of course, lubricant is needed, but you never have to worry about the doll’s gag reflex, neck stiffness, or how the doll will react when you climax.
The right lubricant for a sex doll
To prevent skin injury and fully enjoy vaginal, anal, or oral penetration with your penis, it’s important to thoroughly lubricate the sex doll’s mouth.
Most people choose to use lubricant to make the experience more pleasant and easier.
Always choose water-based lubricant. Silicone or oil-based lubricants can damage your sex doll and cause stains. Water-based lubricant is highly recommended because it’s more hygienic, easy to clean, and doesn’t spread everywhere like silicone lubricants.
Apply about 5 ml of lubricant to every spot where you want to penetrate. Too much lubricant can make the experience sticky and messy.
Tip: Need more lubricant after a while? Add a little warm water to reactivate it; often that’s all it takes to continue.
Experimenting with sex dolls
You can experiment with various positions and sexual acts. Additionally, you can customize the outfits, wig, and sometimes even the body proportions of your sex doll. Changing these elements keeps every experience fresh and exciting.
Although the reasons for buying a sex doll may vary, most customers choose these dolls because of their realistic appearance and sexual companionship. They are designed with physical sex in mind. To ensure you have a great experience and your sex doll lasts a long time, it’s important to follow some cleaning instructions. This way, you can fully enjoy your sex doll and have fun with it for years.
For the ultimate sexual experience, keep in mind that you may need to invest some money. High-quality, lifelike sex dolls are not cheap. In fact, they can be quite expensive, often exceeding €1000. It’s important to realize this is a long-term investment that will bring you lasting pleasure. There are also sex dolls under €1000; these are usually torso sex dolls.
Top-quality sex dolls are so realistic that the difference between sex with a doll and sex with a human is sometimes hard to distinguish. It’s an experience to cherish and can provide a lot of satisfaction.
Advantages of sex with a sex doll
First of all, it’s much easier to experiment with a sex doll. Your real partner might not be open to certain ideas, like anal sex or different positions. With a sex doll, you won’t have those problems. A sex doll never says no and doesn’t object to whatever you decide to do.
If you are in a relationship, a sex doll can also offer benefits. Adding a sex doll to your erotic life can be a fresh and exciting experience. It can even serve as practice before trying a threesome. Either way, it’s a win-win situation.
What does it feel like to have sex with a sex doll? It feels very realistic and is definitely worth trying.
''How realistic can our sex dolls be?''
Watch below the production video of Lily, a silicone doll with an Asian appearance. Notice the details; they speak for themselves.
Source:
- Post with comment on Reddit from a customer who shared his experience of his first sex doll purchase (not from Monica Moments), accessed on 12/10/2025 from https://www.reddit.com/r/SexDolls/comments/1phuha6/what_does_it_feel_like_to_own_and_have_sex_with_a/?share_id=R9-FC4uWWu3wp6vQjb_kS&
