Why do men see sex dolls as a worthy alternative to women?
Buying sex dolls is done by different kinds of people. Sex dolls are mainly bought from two perspectives: for the physical purpose of sex, or the mental purpose of companionship, presence, and something to care for.
This covers the vast majority of sex doll users; everyone has their own reason, and it is not the same or obvious for everyone.
In short, sex dolls offer a transparent exchange with clear boundaries; in return for some care, fantasy, and a certain budget, you can enjoy presence, honesty, calm, and total control over the form and frequency of sex, where you always maintain 100% control.
Key points in this description are calm, control, transparency, and total commitment. A sex doll has no other purpose than to satisfy you and in return requires only a few minutes of attention in the form of cleaning.
Note: not everyone uses a sex doll as an alternative to a relationship or partner; some couples use sex dolls as an addition for something extra in the relationship or as an introduction to a threesome. We know that sex dolls cannot fulfill the connection that real partners can for many, but not everyone demands that as a strict requirement. Many are aware of this and do not require that level of communication.
Quotes from sex doll owners
"It seems that the whole concept of dating and marriage has become a trap for men. No matter how you try to play it, she always has the control and will likely use or abuse it at some point. Sex dolls are a smart alternative that meets my needs well enough to have a satisfying relationship."
"For anyone who still can’t reason it out, what do you prefer? Sex with your hand or sex with an almost real vagina? The choice is a no-brainer."
Customer story sex doll experience 205
"A few years ago, like many, I started with a small sex toy.
Out of curiosity and the desire to further improve my sexual endurance, I decided to try something bigger.
I had been thinking about it for a while and found no reason not to do it, so I took the plunge.
After the first time with a larger doll, I already knew this was a keeper.
DThe visual shapes, the feeling on touch, and the contact.
No small masturbator can compete with that.
Just to unwind, de-stress, simply enjoy, and also gain more control over my orgasm and train my endurance.
It’s fun to experiment and discover new things; some toys work out better than others, but there are few things I can get so much pleasure from.
It’s also not really comparable to a small toy because you get much more material to use.
I see it as a hobby, one I take time for and really enjoy.
Everyone deserves to experience this at least once, even if just to try. I always feel much happier after using one of my dolls.
Really a fantastic experience, those Monica moments haha!''
Customer story sex doll experience 344
''I had been thinking for some time about trying something new, but because I want to make a well-considered choice about which toy to get, I often do months of research.
I wanted something different than a small masturbator, something bigger with more realism so it really became a moment to enjoy instead of quickly relieving stress with a too-small toy.
Because with a small pocket pussy or masturbator, you do 90% of the work yourself anyway.
I didn’t want that anymore.
Just something big, new, the real deal.
I’m really a butt man; I can look at nicely shaped buttocks for hours.
So I went for Claudia.
The fun advantage of a larger doll is that you can also get started without using your hands.
It feels so realistic that it can’t be compared to other small sex toys like a masturbator or pocket pussy.
So far, I’ve been able to enjoy the purchase several times every week.
By the way, a bonus advantage I only recently discovered
I can now last much longer in bed because I can train or practice my endurance and stamina with my doll.
A few weeks ago, I was averaging 4 minutes to orgasm, and that has now already doubled.
Thanks! - A happy customer''
Customer story sex doll experience 592
''I’ve been a customer with you for some time now, but here’s my story anyway:
It wasn’t so much the sex for me; I’m really someone who loves physical contact, so I mainly use Anne to lie against while sleeping.
The low weight makes it all the more comfortable, although I do miss the legs occasionally.
Sometimes I forget how realistic it feels when she lies with her face on my chest.
Occasionally, it’s necessary to dust her off, but the pleasant contact and feeling make it truly worth it.
That she can also be used for intimate things is an additional benefit you can choose.
Also, the total control you have is a big advantage; you can do exactly what you want.
Trying out certain things, fulfilling fantasies. Appearance, environment, or at a specific time of day.
All completely under your own control.
A realistic doll brings me only positive things like comfort, companionship, presence, and of course, sex.
You also learn to use her better and more often for all kinds of things.
The only thing, and really the only thing, is that she can’t clean herself. But over time, you get good at it.
But for me, it’s simple: I’d rather sleep with her than without her."
Customer story sex doll experience 702
"I think about 5 years ago (just before COVID), the bedroom adventures with my wife started to sound a bit monotonous; it became somewhat boring.
We had already tried a lot of new things, but many adventures were fun once, not repeatedly.
Small toys felt too mechanical, and double dates felt awkward; you have years of experience with your own wife, and involving another couple just doesn’t get comfortable quickly.
New people always feel awkward, and repetition with the same people was not something my wife and I wanted because it could lead to extra feelings.
My wife and I love each other deeply, but we both quickly developed an aversion to new people.
You can only truly enjoy sex when you’ve known each other for a while, know what the other likes, and feel completely at ease.
We liked the idea of others, but it was always an anticlimax once the others were in the bedroom; you worry about what the other person thinks, both the one you see for the first time and your partner who also has to get used to the other.
Even if it was just a threesome.
A lot of hassle and organizing for a mediocre experience.
Simply not worth the effort.
The mixed feelings completely took away the enjoyable experience.
Ideally, I would have an exact copy or "clone" of my wife, two of the same person in the bedroom.
I would feel comfortable myself, and so would she.
Unfortunately, we are not yet technologically advanced enough for that to be possible.
But then the idea came to me to introduce a lifelike doll, one that didn’t need to get used to, is up for anything, no risk of extra feelings, and both you and your partner remain comfortable.
My wife was open to it and we started with a torso, soon that became a half doll and we have already bought a full doll.
Every weekend is a new experience and the adventures succeed every time.
It’s actually always a party.
My wife and I look forward to every Friday so we can have fun again in our own bedroom, with our own models ready to accompany us.
I want to thank your company for the new life we have created in the bedroom.
It has not only saved the sex life but also given it a big boost.
Chapeau!''
Customer story sex doll experience 753
''Here is my story, or well, my experience:
Because let’s not beat around the bush, every healthy person visits adult websites with 18+ content, but it gets monotonous to always have to choose the same action.
Small sex toys combined with videos are fun, but you are still busy the whole time and the action is practically the same.
I have watched porn, but it no longer really excites me.
I’m no longer interested in dating either, because often the women were average and I only did it for the sex.
I had wanted a better and safer alternative for a long time.
Dolls were a new world for me and are really different; they make sexual interaction much more pleasant because you don’t have to look at a screen or satisfy yourself, because she does that.
(I also see my stamina drastically improving now, I think because of the realistic appearance, which means you reach orgasm much less quickly than before.)
With dolls, you use your hips, eyes, hands, arms, legs, and ears. It is really the experience itself that makes the moment enjoyable.
Something that 18+ videos on a screen can never replicate.
You have complete freedom in that sense, doing whatever you want.
Dolls of good quality are very realistic in that respect and really make the experience even better.
Or well...
I think a doll that is not attractive at all would not suffice.
Visually unattractive dolls do not make the experience enjoyable, whereas high-quality dolls with a nice appearance do.''
Customer story sex doll experience 798
''I would like to share my opinion or story about myself, as perhaps more people can appreciate my view.
I have been single for a few years and saw you pop up on Google about a year ago.
Despite my hobbies, close friends, and daily activities, I hadn’t had the well-being I aspired to for a long time.
Out of curiosity, I visited the website and recently purchased one of your dolls.
It’s not that a sex doll replaces original love, but they do give me something I haven’t had in years.
Peace, deep carefree sleep, physical comfort, and no more tension or fear of others’ feelings.
A completely relaxed feeling.
Just feeling good and enjoying her presence.
I choose self-care, simplicity, and peace, no chaos or hassle in the long term.
That way I decide what happens.
Someone who is really there for me, without playing games or being absent.
It’s simply in every way a better alternative for me at this moment.
Not all sex toys or dolls are the same, because once you’ve found the right one you experience exactly the peace and control, then you understand what I mean.
That’s actually indescribable in words.
Maybe I’ll want something else later, but at this moment this is the perfect option.
Customer story sex doll experience 867
Everyone has tried to tell me often enough: “Being alone is nice and peaceful.”
Fine if they think that, but that’s not my opinion.
I think differently about that; I’m really someone who wants contact, being alone is not powerful in my opinion, it’s just boring.
Of course, chatting with someone else on a dating site is nice and visiting porn sites often does what it’s supposed to do.
But I just miss physical contact, even if it’s just that there’s something or someone at home.
You can compare it to being hungry; you’re not enjoyable because you’re missing a physical need. When you’ve eaten well, you’re immediately satisfied again.
That’s how I see it with a doll or other companion at home.
I also like having a little extra at home and it gives me something to look forward to.
Sometimes it’s also nice to have your own little secret at home, then it’s extra enjoyable, I think.
Customer story sex doll experience 898
I really become genuinely happy and calmer when I’ve had a moment with my doll.
Even when I was so stressed at work and things weren’t going as I wanted, I could cool down and relax at home in my own environment with company like Annabel.
Don’t get me wrong: I have a long-distance relationship, I use a doll as an addition, not as a replacement.
But since I have a doll, I generally am Much happier. She never gets boring and it just stays fun.
So thank you very much for that.
