The secret to an intense female orgasm is time, focused stimulation, attention to her body, and avoiding common mistakes. With the right technique, approach, time, and focus, you'll achieve not just one orgasm, but often several in succession.
Common mistakes men make in bed
Men often make the same 5 mistakes that cause women to experience no or only superficial orgasms:
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Going to penetration too quickly
80% of women don't reach orgasm through penetration alone. Starting right away without extensive foreplay diminishes her arousal and makes it nearly impossible for her to climax. -
Unilateral stimulation
Many men focus solely on the vagina. However, the clitoris contains over 8,000 nerve endings and is the key to intense pleasure. -
Irregular pace
Varying pace and pressure interrupts her buildup to orgasm. Maintain a steady rhythm and only increase the intensity in the final phase. -
No eye contact or connection
Sex is also about emotional connection. A lack of attention and connection diminishes her arousal. -
Stopping too early after the first orgasm
Many women have a short recovery time and can experience a second orgasm immediately. Stopping takes her out of the flow.
How to Stimulate Multiple Orgasms in a Woman
Achieving multiple orgasms requires a combination of physical technique and mental stimulation. Here's how:
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Start with long foreplay
At least 15 minutes of foreplay increases blood flow and sensitivity in her genitals. Combine kissing, caressing, and oral stimulation. Ideally, extend this to 45-60 minutes using our detailed approach . -
Combining clitoral and vaginal stimulation
Use your fingers or a sex toy for clitoral stimulation during penetration. This increases the chance of a series of orgasms. -
Keep going after the first orgasm
Many women can climax again within 30 to 90 seconds of their initial orgasm if stimulation continues. Avoid pressure on sensitive areas and build up the intensity again. -
Vary in stimuli
Alternating between soft and firm touches keeps her nervous system active and increases the chance of a second or third orgasm. -
Stimulate her mentally
Whisper compliments, describe what you're doing to her, and make her fantasies a reality. Mental arousal amplifies the physical sensation.
