Why More and More Men Are Experimenting with Anal Stimulation
The growing popularity of anal stimulation in men stems from a mix of physical, cultural, online hype, and social factors:
- The prostate is intense: the prostate, a small gland located in the anus, is extremely sensitive and can, when stimulated, lead to intense orgasms, often more powerful than traditional stimulation. The prostate is unfamiliar territory for many men, which is precisely what piques their curiosity.
- Decreasing Stigma: Cultural shifts and open conversations about sexuality have reduced the taboo surrounding anal stimulation. Men feel freer to experiment without judgment. ( 1 )
- Access to information: Thanks to the internet and sex education, more men are aware of the possibilities and benefits of anal stimulation.
- Experimentation: Whether solo or with a partner, men are looking for new ways to enhance their pleasure, and anal stimulation offers an exciting new dimension.
These factors make it an accessible and attractive option for men of all backgrounds and sexual preferences.
Safety and hygiene tips + toy recommendations
Safety and hygiene are crucial for a pleasant and worry-free experience. Here are the most important tips:
- Use plenty of lubricant: Anal tissue is sensitive and doesn't produce natural lubricant. Choose a high-quality, water- or silicone-based lubricant . Avoid silicone lubricants with silicone toys to prevent damage.
- Start slowly: start with smaller toys or a finger to get your body used to it. Don't force anything; relaxation is essential. If you're more advanced, you can use Bob or Sora, which provide the right stimulation.
- Hygiene is important: clean the area thoroughly before and after use with mild soap and water. Consider anal douches for extra hygiene, but don't overdo it, as this can disrupt the natural balance.
- Safe toys: Use toys with a wide base or handle to prevent them from going too deep into your anus. Sterilize toys after use and don't share them without a condom.
- Listen to your body: stop immediately if you experience any pain or discomfort. Anal stimulation should be pleasurable, not painful.
- Communication with partner: If you're experimenting with a partner, discuss boundaries and use a safe word for safety.
With this guide, you'll be ready to explore anal stimulation in a safe, enjoyable, and confident way. Start small, take your time, and enjoy the journey to new forms of anal pleasure.
Source:
- Wignall, L., Scoats, R., Anderson, E., & Morales, L. (2019). A qualitative study of heterosexual men's attitudes toward and practices of receiving anal stimulation. Culture, Health & Sexuality. DOI:10.1080/13691058.2019.1627584. Retrieved on 12/11/2025 from https://www.open-access.bcu.ac.uk/7669/
